To begin with, I have never thought that I would be writing this message. 'be in a position to write this message" would have been more opt words.
Yes, I know divine and true love is possible. I know how pity they look -- the ones who voluntarily come forward to advise you that (s)he isn't the only one and why don't you just move on. We pity them and their advise because they simply don't understand what true love is. They fail to acknowledge the fact that even at it's worst moments, true love finds it's tiniest hope that things will be alright and hangs onto it. When you love someone truly, how could you accept a break up for it simply will shatter your heart, your dreams and your life. Yes, I understand and I could empathize with you on this for sure. I know you would have thought many times to end your life yourself and you are also convinced that you have the most genuine reason to proceed with such decision irrespective of how stupid it may sound to others. The others -- they never understand. I know. You are willing to wait unconditionally taking all the pains and ready to face the hell on earth so that you could still hang onto your love and that your hoping of that magic may happen any time. You are all forgiving. You are all sacrificing. You are all ready to compromise. After all, it's all for the one whom you truly, madly and deeply love.
But my dear friend, I have to tell you something. Something that you don't know. Something that you could see only when you pass this phase. So hold tight. I'm not going to promise you that things will become alright and that your love will start blossoming again. It may or may not. While I unconditionally agree that your love is genuine and true, my dear friend, I have to say that you still haven't touched the core of it yet. The part where even with true love, you can see the reality. The moment when you would realize letting go does not mean end of love. It doesn't make your true love untrue. While it may be the most painful thing to let go of the one you love, touching the bottom of true love indeed helps you to understand the circumstances and reality and that letting go is part of life. Life doesn't end there. You may not be able to move on but you can definitely take an effort. There will be someone coming onto you, who will change things in your life. You don't have to move on, they will move you. You will no longer have to stand in there where you were fighting with pain all alone. Someone will come in your life. Keep the door open. I know you may find difficulty to walk to the door to unlock even if someone knocks. So keep the door open, so when someone wants to come in, they can get in and reach you.
There is a great saying, "Some day, there will be a person coming in your life and makes you forget all your pain, makes you feel the love (again) and shows a bright life of future. Not because they are better than the other person, but because they are simply different". (I customized the quote to convey the essence of the message)
Yes, you can fall in love with more than one person -- truly, madly and deeply. There is no better love for love can't be compared with one another. There is love, that's all.
Paul Arockiam.
27-Aug-2014.
Yes, I know divine and true love is possible. I know how pity they look -- the ones who voluntarily come forward to advise you that (s)he isn't the only one and why don't you just move on. We pity them and their advise because they simply don't understand what true love is. They fail to acknowledge the fact that even at it's worst moments, true love finds it's tiniest hope that things will be alright and hangs onto it. When you love someone truly, how could you accept a break up for it simply will shatter your heart, your dreams and your life. Yes, I understand and I could empathize with you on this for sure. I know you would have thought many times to end your life yourself and you are also convinced that you have the most genuine reason to proceed with such decision irrespective of how stupid it may sound to others. The others -- they never understand. I know. You are willing to wait unconditionally taking all the pains and ready to face the hell on earth so that you could still hang onto your love and that your hoping of that magic may happen any time. You are all forgiving. You are all sacrificing. You are all ready to compromise. After all, it's all for the one whom you truly, madly and deeply love.
But my dear friend, I have to tell you something. Something that you don't know. Something that you could see only when you pass this phase. So hold tight. I'm not going to promise you that things will become alright and that your love will start blossoming again. It may or may not. While I unconditionally agree that your love is genuine and true, my dear friend, I have to say that you still haven't touched the core of it yet. The part where even with true love, you can see the reality. The moment when you would realize letting go does not mean end of love. It doesn't make your true love untrue. While it may be the most painful thing to let go of the one you love, touching the bottom of true love indeed helps you to understand the circumstances and reality and that letting go is part of life. Life doesn't end there. You may not be able to move on but you can definitely take an effort. There will be someone coming onto you, who will change things in your life. You don't have to move on, they will move you. You will no longer have to stand in there where you were fighting with pain all alone. Someone will come in your life. Keep the door open. I know you may find difficulty to walk to the door to unlock even if someone knocks. So keep the door open, so when someone wants to come in, they can get in and reach you.
There is a great saying, "Some day, there will be a person coming in your life and makes you forget all your pain, makes you feel the love (again) and shows a bright life of future. Not because they are better than the other person, but because they are simply different". (I customized the quote to convey the essence of the message)
Yes, you can fall in love with more than one person -- truly, madly and deeply. There is no better love for love can't be compared with one another. There is love, that's all.
Paul Arockiam.
27-Aug-2014.
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