Sudden feeling of strangeness!

It's surprising how a person, who once were very close to us, becomes stranger all of sudden. It feels as though we never knew them.

I'm now thinking of my past relationships and the phases I went through with each of them. I feel that when sudden feeling of strangeness kicks in a relationship, it is the time one should wake up and do all preparations for what could possibly be an end to the relationship. The preparation will help untie oneself from such relationship with as little hurt as possible.

I do feel that having a sense about the time the other person is moving away from the relationship is important for one's own mental health. It's really important especially to those who exhibit unconditional love and affection. When one senses such situation in a relationship, it's also important to listen to the mind than the heart. The heart will always try to amend things and fight for the relationship. It will tell stupid things like we can continue to try and work it out irrespective of getting hurt.

Well, we should listen to our mind that tells it's all over and that we should move on. I know it's difficult because the truth isn't always easy to take in. We shouldn't be afraid to take the pill even though it's very bitter. Because at the end, the bitter pill is the one that's going to save us from lots of trouble. Isn't it?

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Paul | பவுல்