The biggest battles fought by the individuals never made themselves to the history. They were closed behind the doors, hided under the blanket and let to dry on the pillows. The biggest battles have always been the ones that are within even though they were kicked off by the ones who just found their way out.
Most of the times, advises never have effect on people. When they get themselves convinced of the battle they were fighting within, found a way to make peace with themselves or decided to give up on the enemy they were fighting with, anything you tell them could be treated as advise and can be given the status of having effect.
You see, counselling and advises changing life are myths. It is the decision to listen to them has to be marked as the point of turning. One of my friends used to say, "do you know what is your problem..? you know a lot !!". When those statements hit me hard, I realized that ignorance is indeed a bliss. Ignorance helps to recover faster, because your bowl is empty and there is always someone or something to fill it with.
When I was suffering from deepest form of depression, I know inside that it wasn't that I couldn't come out of it. It was just that I didn't want to. When you realize such fact, there is nothing in this world that can cure you but you.
Paul Arockiam.
15-July-2014.
Most of the times, advises never have effect on people. When they get themselves convinced of the battle they were fighting within, found a way to make peace with themselves or decided to give up on the enemy they were fighting with, anything you tell them could be treated as advise and can be given the status of having effect.
You see, counselling and advises changing life are myths. It is the decision to listen to them has to be marked as the point of turning. One of my friends used to say, "do you know what is your problem..? you know a lot !!". When those statements hit me hard, I realized that ignorance is indeed a bliss. Ignorance helps to recover faster, because your bowl is empty and there is always someone or something to fill it with.
When I was suffering from deepest form of depression, I know inside that it wasn't that I couldn't come out of it. It was just that I didn't want to. When you realize such fact, there is nothing in this world that can cure you but you.
Paul Arockiam.
15-July-2014.
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