In the state of uncertainty, decisions are difficult to make. It's not very surprising to see people withdrawing themselves from the conversations or not coming forward to have one at all. It is just disappointing. Thanks to the society and this world for constantly showing it's cruelty at people's door step. Everyone seems to have just scared. The faith in humanity or moral values seems to have lost even though individuals have the same within themselves. It is just that they don't easily trust others. Of course, they can't be blamed.
Having seen so much and experienced so much, now what I need is re-labeling and re-focusing on things. I should take sometime to organize and clearly draw my lines for my future.
Ever since I had put my profile on matrimonial, there were couple of incidents when the climax of "When Harry Met Sally" ran in my mind. Harry's dialog goes like this in the climax, "....And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible". That doesn't mean that I fall in love. It is just that when you realize somebody could be your possible match, you just want the discussions to progress as early as possible. But you see, life isn't a movie. The reality has it's own timing. What I realized is, the need of the hour is, patience.
Paul Arockiam.
09-June-2014.
Having seen so much and experienced so much, now what I need is re-labeling and re-focusing on things. I should take sometime to organize and clearly draw my lines for my future.
Ever since I had put my profile on matrimonial, there were couple of incidents when the climax of "When Harry Met Sally" ran in my mind. Harry's dialog goes like this in the climax, "....And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible". That doesn't mean that I fall in love. It is just that when you realize somebody could be your possible match, you just want the discussions to progress as early as possible. But you see, life isn't a movie. The reality has it's own timing. What I realized is, the need of the hour is, patience.
Paul Arockiam.
09-June-2014.
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