How will you convey to a someone that you are the one and you are all what they needs, when the other person focus is fully on their wants ? Let's keep the debate of how will one know the need of another aside, for a while at least. Let's assume that they just know. Now the question is, how that person will convey the other person they are not looking at the option that will fulfill their need.
I do notice that some people's want doesn't even overlap with their need ? How will you make them understand that what they are doing is chasing their own shadow hoping it will provide shade from sun light ? Or may be that they do know their need and they get bit more greedy.
I sometime concern about them that their wants could put them into misery in long run if they put their needs in back seat. We can say it is none of our business until of course the concerned person is of falling under your caring circle. Sometimes all you can do is warn and if possible be a backup in case they end up in the need of rescue.
Paul Arockiam.
13-June-2014.
I do notice that some people's want doesn't even overlap with their need ? How will you make them understand that what they are doing is chasing their own shadow hoping it will provide shade from sun light ? Or may be that they do know their need and they get bit more greedy.
I sometime concern about them that their wants could put them into misery in long run if they put their needs in back seat. We can say it is none of our business until of course the concerned person is of falling under your caring circle. Sometimes all you can do is warn and if possible be a backup in case they end up in the need of rescue.
Paul Arockiam.
13-June-2014.
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