In a relationship, the person who is first to express or more expressive than the other person is the most vulnerable. I'm not saying that to mean such persons requires change. While you know what kind of person you are, it is also good to know the position, advantages and disadvantages you have in your relationship. Nothing to be scared of, but realizing the fact will help you deal the reality in a better way (or at least not in the worst way).
I have witnessed it. I have been a victim of it. I have experienced it. I have also noted that considerate thoughts, empathy, unconditional love and care seems to have become luxury in nature, in the sense not many persons possesses them these days. The very unfortunate thing is, those who have such luxurious attributes are considered to be poor and are denied of VIP status. While that is not for what they want to exhibit such attributes, it is however, in my opinion, very unfortunate.
The persons, who are truly committed into a relationship, are nothing but to be scared of the uncertainty thrown at them constantly. Persistence is often to be questioned for it's ability to add value into such relationships. A focused effort again needed to be questioned. If a relationship is mutually caring enough, why do you need persistence and focused effort to keep it stable ?
Having said the realities, you can't change the nature of your true self irrespective of the rides life takes you for. Can you ?
Paul Arockiam.
16-June-2014.
I have witnessed it. I have been a victim of it. I have experienced it. I have also noted that considerate thoughts, empathy, unconditional love and care seems to have become luxury in nature, in the sense not many persons possesses them these days. The very unfortunate thing is, those who have such luxurious attributes are considered to be poor and are denied of VIP status. While that is not for what they want to exhibit such attributes, it is however, in my opinion, very unfortunate.
The persons, who are truly committed into a relationship, are nothing but to be scared of the uncertainty thrown at them constantly. Persistence is often to be questioned for it's ability to add value into such relationships. A focused effort again needed to be questioned. If a relationship is mutually caring enough, why do you need persistence and focused effort to keep it stable ?
Having said the realities, you can't change the nature of your true self irrespective of the rides life takes you for. Can you ?
Paul Arockiam.
16-June-2014.
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