Why to give up, especially when you haven't made any mistakes yet..? Especially when you are honestly pursuing on it without any bad intentions..? Especially when you believe that there is a possible positive response..?
Why to give up..?
I know it's hard to keep the momentum going when you are put on hold, especially when you are so eager to make progress. But most of the times, things are not just in the control of yourself. You are one of the participants. It needs push and pull from both the sides.
When I was talking to one of the doctors I know of, she said, "Paul, people have to come half way to meet each other in a relationship.. One person moving all the way long to meet the other person might give a pleasure or satisfaction for a while, but it won't lost long especially given the fact that the other person haven't taken the efforts that they were supposed to have". She couldn't have been more right in pointing out how a relationship should start between two people.
It is true that both persons have to walk half way and meet at the mid point. Sacrifice, keeping the ego aside, willing to forgive, willing to let go, etc can happen once you meet at the mid point. If the other person doesn't even come to meet you half way, what is the point in thinking that the relationship is precious ? After all, the other person isn't willing to come forward for you.
Paul Arockiam.
07-June-2014.
Why to give up..?
I know it's hard to keep the momentum going when you are put on hold, especially when you are so eager to make progress. But most of the times, things are not just in the control of yourself. You are one of the participants. It needs push and pull from both the sides.
When I was talking to one of the doctors I know of, she said, "Paul, people have to come half way to meet each other in a relationship.. One person moving all the way long to meet the other person might give a pleasure or satisfaction for a while, but it won't lost long especially given the fact that the other person haven't taken the efforts that they were supposed to have". She couldn't have been more right in pointing out how a relationship should start between two people.
It is true that both persons have to walk half way and meet at the mid point. Sacrifice, keeping the ego aside, willing to forgive, willing to let go, etc can happen once you meet at the mid point. If the other person doesn't even come to meet you half way, what is the point in thinking that the relationship is precious ? After all, the other person isn't willing to come forward for you.
Paul Arockiam.
07-June-2014.
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